Meet the Team: Linda Looking

Taylor Made Retreat’s success can be attributed to the staff and volunteers that are dedicated to supporting our mission. In an effort to personalize our intentional work, we would like to give you a more intimate glimpse into the people who make up our team.
Meet Linda Looking, our newest House Manager. With an impressive history, Linda brings valuable experience to the house, contributing to the well-being of our residents and enhancing their journey toward recovery.
What is a House Manager?
Our House Managers manage the day-to-day functions of the house. They are the first resource for each of our residents – to answer questions, ensure they stay on schedule, chaperone excursions, and more. Their most vital role is to work one-on-one with our residents on their “step work”, tracking their progress as they journey through the 12-step recovery program. They provide personal insight from their own recovery journey and build relationships with each resident, providing a real-world example of successful sober living. All of our house managers are recovered addicts or alcoholics with firsthand experience with the 12-step program, and many of them are successful graduates of Taylor Made Retreat.
About Linda

Linda is enrolled Assiniboine/Sioux (Dakota) from the Ft. Peck Indian Reservation in Montana. With her sobriety date of June 11, 1978, she has been in recovery for 45 years. Linda was hired at Native American Rehabilitation Association (NARA) as a counselor in 1981. When she retired in 2006, she became treatment director at NARA outpatient. Most of Linda’s career has been in the recovery field. She
spent six years as the Elder Project Manager for Mother Nation (part-time) and Case Manager for Catholic Community Services, running their recovery house. She presided as board chair for Mother Nation for three years when starting their non-profit, and since 2016 she has served as the President of the Northwest Council of Water Protectors. Linda is also the mother of six beautiful children and grandmother/great-grandmother of 34. Linda is glad to have been involved in the native communities throughout the Northwest and enjoys the work she is doing now as a House Manager at Taylor Made Retreat.
A Conversation with Linda
You’ve worked in the recovery field for a long time. Can you tell us why you have continued to choose this work?
Because I am in recovery myself. I believe that my higher power guided me to be in this field. All of the struggles I’ve been through have become assets – to help people, and to help women especially. I’ve endured a lot and I can relate to women who have been in difficult situations and abuse. Being a parent motivates me as well. When I got sober, I had five little faces staring up at me, and I didn’t know who they were. I believe my higher power brought me here so I could help others who have been in situations like that.
What drew you to work at Taylor Made Retreat?
Creator just guided me here. It’s the way it happened. Lowell [MacGregor, Executive Director] came up to me after speaking at an AA-meeting; he liked my story. He asked if I would speak to the Taylor Made residents at an upcoming Fireside Chat. Then he added, “How would you like to come to work for us?” I had just retired, but he asked me to think about it, pray about it, and let him know.
When I came to speak at Fireside, I knew I liked it here. I liked the way that TMR uses the 12 Step Method – it’s an important part that’s missed in regular treatment. Other recovery centers touch on the steps but they don’t “work” them. Here, they work them into their life. Clients work with the other clients like teammates; staff hold the clients accountable and support them in each step. It’s amazing.
What would you tell someone who wanted to get sober, but didn’t know where to start?
I honestly would tell them to come here. I had been in recovery for eight years, really struggling, and had never really worked the steps. I think that was part of the problem. Here, by working the 12 steps with accountability and support, it gives you a foundation for recovery for the rest of your life.
To take your first step towards recovery, or simply to learn more about Taylor Made Retreat and our mission, call (360) 433-1040 today.











Prior to joining us at Taylor Made, Chef Heather worked in a variety of different kitchens around the country. From working on a 175-foot Yacht to a Juvenile Detention Center, she has spent years crafting her culinary knowledge to create truly meaningful experiences and seriously delicious meals. While working in the Juvenile Detention Center, Heather realized it was communities like these she felt compelled to serve. Many of the boys had been repeat offenders that grew up with absent families and food scarcity. They ran a culinary program teaching the boys with the basics of cooking while building a foundation of work ethic.
Chef Heather meets with the clients during a weekly house meeting, and clients are encouraged to give suggestions for meals. She listens to them and if she overhears something food-related, she will often put together a surprise (this includes a goodbye Pineapple Upside Down Cake for a departing client). They also are dedicated to Taco Tuesday and Breakfast for Dinner on Thursdays.

When I arrived at TMR in the fall of 2020, I thought my life and my career as a professional dancer were both over. My alcoholism and drug addiction had brought me to my knees yet again, and I felt hopeless, ashamed, and without options. Since my time at TMR I have remained clean and sober for over two years now. My life has opened up and become bigger and more vibrant than I could have imagined.
I’d been to Paris many years ago but most of that trip was spent drinking, in blackouts, hungover, and wondering why I couldn’t drink like a gentleman. This time, as a sober man, I got to experience all the beauty and life that Paris and French culture has to offer. It was amazing and only possible because of the work I’ve done and the help I’ve received in recovery. TMR was the program I needed to get sober, get healthy, get honest, and get better. My life is blessed beyond measure… and it’s true what they say: it works if you work it. And I work it.


At the age of 17, he overdosed and was airlifted to the hospital. That was his first time in rehab and the first time he attended an AA meeting.



Amanda came to Taylor Made after being unable to quit drinking. She described her life as hopeless, overwhelming, and impossible. Amanda always wanted to be a mom and was very excited when she found out she was pregnant. Amanda was so in love with her daughter Olive when she was born, but unfortunately, her alcoholism progressed. Amanda spent most of her time isolating and drinking. When life got too difficult, and Amanda needed help, she was led to Taylor Made Retreat where she learned to incorporate the 12 steps into her life. She no longer has the desire to drink and is finding joy in just being present with her daughter and joining in her excitement in discovering the world. Amanda also is active in supporting others in recovery and spends a lot of time at the retreat.
Becca arrived at Taylor Made Retreat after spending months in Mexico on an extended vacation. She arrived pretty banged up from months of partying. Becca hung on to the “party girl” attitude for a little while until she realized she wanted to truly recover. Becca completed the steps at the retreat and has had a complete shift in her whole being. Becca 2.0 is a kind and compassionate member of the recovery community. Becca has been supporting a meeting at Taylor Made for months and maintains contact with the retreat. She continues to stay in contact with alumni and support other women in their recovery. This past summer Becca and her partner adopted a German Shepherd puppy. They are also very excited to be welcoming their son into the world in January.
