Taylor Hanes was born on March 28,1933, but to hear him tell the story, his life didn’t fully begin until he achieved sobriety on December 15, 1967. His final drinking spell was said be the result of learning that his new bride was not interested in having children; Taylor was heartbroken at the news and his natural response (pre-spiritual solution) was to turn to the bottle. After disappearing from his home for three days, he returned and his wife relented. Happily for them both, their daughter Michelle was born 18 months later in June of 1968.
Taylor never drank again until his death in August of 2013. Michelle grew up with a father who was sober and his wife Nancy was able to experience the “real” Taylor.
Taylor’s sobriety started in Huntington Beach with his original sponsor Dan, who introduced him to Alcoholics Anonymous and to the importance of carrying the message of the 12 steps to others. Their home group was called the “Spiritual Mother F%*#ers” in order to celebrate the movement and to eradicate swearing in meetings. They may not have been conventional, but they helped a lot of people. They also helped to solidify the 4th Tradition – Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or AA. as a whole.
Taylor had a unique style of working with men. He held up a mirror to those he was stewarding, helping them to see themselves in a new way (as they really were) and helping them to take responsibility for their lives, rather than being victims of circumstance. Having that spotlight shined on people wasn’t always comfortable; but the result was – lives were turned around, families were reunited and new paths were forged. His efforts lifted people off the scrap heap of life and onto the road to success.
Taylor called this method of working with his sponsorees “womb to the tomb” because he walked people back through their lives from their earliest memories to the the present. No matter what Taylor’s physical or mental condition, he seemed able to recall what was needed to right the ship for the person he was talking to at the time.
His impact was felt deeply.He housed people in his home, he took on the people that were hopeless and gave them hope and he helped glue broken lives back together.
Taylor was deeply loved by many, especially by Founder, Lowell MacGregor, who was given a new life by Taylor and who has spent the last 28 years wondering how he could ever honor his memory properly. Lowell and all those who have supported this project hope that the principles Taylor embodied in his life will be carried on for years after his passing.